Doctor Abdeljabbar Choukri
Psychologists, Sociologist
Poet and Novolist
From Morocco
I am always facing the Other
l am in front of him
I feel Facing the other in
Two forms of existence
The first Existence : in its essence
The second : is existence for its own sake
In the words of Merleau-Ponty
Wich he said
The first Existence of
The Other is facing to me
Is only as a body
Has a biologic being
Has a material appearing
A Physical existence
Tangible and A sensual presence
He reacs in front of me
He speaks to me
He gets emotional to me
He laughs at me
He cries to me
:He shouts at me
I am the Other, to you Ego
It's a real reality for me
He is present with me
With his mechanisms of the affection
With his attack mechanisms
I feel it in my
Dreams , in my reality
In my happiness and in my sadnesses
At any way l feel his presence
He consoles me
but in same time
He bothers me
My loneliness
And my alienation in existence
All of those make me
Moving towards him
In order anticipate what he will do
By his body
by his speech
By his behaviors
He tells me and teaches me
Without knowing what I would do
Then I find myself protecting myself
By My reactions towardsThe other
I confront him
according to his feelings
According to his words
According to his behavior
I struggle to protect myself
From everything that hurts me from other
And also protect others
From my anger and attack on theme
And build a relationship
with theme in harmony
In love and peace
In other hand when l faced The other
l faced another existence
An existence without
A material appearing
Without any material signs
This immaterial existence of the other
We call it : existence for its own sake
=That means
Immaterial existence
Is the thinking mind
who thinks,in place the body
Who acts, in place the body
Who plans in place the body
The body is nothing in front of mind
The real human being is the mind
Not the body
Although the mind is immaterial
in another appearance in
interaction between Ego an Other
In daily living
According to philosopher Edmund Husserl
The Other appears in front the Ego
In two forms of the existence
The first is : Subjective existence
The second is : objective existence
The first existence as
The subjective existence of the Other
Usually he thinks , reacts
and answers my questions
Starting from himself
In front of the outside world
In the same time ,he is in front of me
As a body and as a mind
The second existence as
The objective existence of the Other
The moment ,the Other wants
To think
To reacts
To solve
To answer
He do all this things
From his experience in
The outside world
Which he carries in
His consciousness
And in his mind
Meaning that the objective
Existence of Other exists
in the presence of the outside
world in his mind
But he does not think from his mind
Rather, he thinks from his experiences
in the outside world that
he carries in his consciousness
In another appearance
In confrontation and benefit
Between the Ego and the Other
From each other and from the life
According to philosopher Jean-Paul Sartre
The Other appears to the Ego
In two forms of existence
The first is : negative existence
The second is : positive existence
The first: negative existence
:As a negative being is
The moment ,the other looks at the Ego
And This look confuses him
And annoys him
By this sight he loses
His original entity
And he falls into another entity
The entity of shame
That experience of shame
It's an insult to the Ego
In this case the Ego becomes
A subject to the Other
Hence negative existence
It is that the Ego loses
His real entity as an Ego
And also when this shame
Becomes as an insult to the ego
The ego is trying to recover
His dignity by this recovery
He watches His thinking
He watches His words
He watch his actions
In order to
Don't fall again into
The harsh experience of shame
So the negative presence of the other
Means losing his freedom
And means Is the Lost of his wil
The second: positive existence
:As a positive being is
While the Ego is watching himself
He realizes his presence
His awareness and his freedom
So the positive presence of Other
Is the moment where
The Other pushes the Ego
Awares his existence
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